How to understand that a girl wants to meet you
Sometimes it is very difficult to understand whether a girl likes you or not, is it worth her to go and meet her or not? Here are a few signs, assessing which, you can don, do you have a chance or not.
Pay attention to non-verbal cues
You may have already seen this list. Do not rush to close the article, because psychologists conducted a study and proved that it is very likely that a girl liked someone.
Below is a list of 12 signs. It is not necessary to try to find everything, however, the more of them you see in a girl, the more likely she is to like you.
So, the girl likes you if she:
- Smiles at you.
- Throws short glances at you.
- Looks away when you look at her.
- Looks into your eyes for a long time.
- Fingers over his hair.
- Licking lips.
- Shows the neck.
- Leans your head in your direction.
- He turns to you, sitting on a chair.
- Touch your arm or shoulder.
- Laughs when you speak.
- Strokes some object in his hands.
The main signals of interest are smile, eye contact, quick glances at you and to the side.
Consider them in context
Do not think that noticing one of these signs in relation to you, you can grab the girl and carry on a date. It is necessary to take into account the context and how this girl behaves in other situations.
If a bank employee smiles at you, it means that she is polite with visitors, and not falling in love with you. Now, if you see a few more signs unusual for the behavior of a bank employee, then you should think about it.
Do not rely on just one signal
If you notice some kind of signal, it does not mean that the girl is ready to marry you. She just thinks you are attractive and don’t mind if you take the first step. This may be a conversation, an invitation to dance or a cup of coffee.
Ask her phone number and invite for a date. During the conversation, you know each other better. If she likes you, she will continue to give non-verbal signals. And let him know that he is not against a second date, perhaps even in plain text.
If it goes well, you will notice further signals. For example, if a girl sits closer to you, she is not against some kind of physical contact. Most likely, she will not be offended if you take her hand or kiss her at the end of the date.
How to understand that girl is not interested in you
Women also send non-verbal signals when they do not like a man. For example, if during a conversation she does not look into your eyes, turns away, yawns, or starts talking to someone else. Do not think that she is pretending to be inaccessible. She just does not want to communicate with you.
What to do when you doubt
When you notice signals from a girl, but still doubt, invite her on a date. Let it be something not too serious, like a cup of coffee. If she agrees, everything is clear.
If she refuses, then most likely she does not want to get to know you. Of course, she may have plans for the evening, but if you really like her, she will either change her plans or offer another time for a date.
You can ask again in a couple of weeks if you like it a lot. But if she says no again, no longer insist.